When a person cheats on their significant other, it makes them feel like they weren’t enough, they weren’t beautiful/handsome enough. It messes with our brains. It ruins our self-esteem. And most of all, it makes us have trust issues. For all the times they said “I love you” they lied and you thought they did. So, then you leave the relationship. A while later you find someone else who actually loves you. You’re scared. Because you are scared they are like the other. If they actually loved you. You wouldn’t have those thoughts. Because he/she would show you. Not just say it all the time. And you would feel safe and happy. I don’t understand why people plan on getting into a relationship if all they’re going to do is cheat on you and screw you over :/ People don’t cheat on accident. It’s on purpose and they know what they are doing! I’m going to tell y’all what I think a relationship should consist of… Y’all should be loyal to each other, no flirting with other girls, you can talk to girls, just as long as you’re TALKING to them, NOT TRYING TO PULL ANYTHING ELSE OFF! (goes for girls too) You should trust each other, tell each other how much you love them (only if you mean it, it’s easy to say you love someone but their actions show differently) you should tell him how sexy he is, and he should tell you how beautiful you are. You should ALWAYS show each other off in front of your “bros and hoes”. It makes us girls feel good about ourselves. You should hype each other up If your boyfriend/girlfriend has a test the next day, stay up and help him/her study for it. Encourage them to get good grades in school. Relationships aren’t JUST about sex. I’m only 14, but I feel like I know a lot more than I should, it’s from the stuff I’ve been through, and have seen growing up. I’m very mature for my age, yea I can act very immature. But I don’t act immature when I know something is serious. Yea, you can have fun, just realize the situation you are in before you try and act like a child.